My emotion problems

Zhang Chi
Zhang Chi
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I've fallen in love with a girl in my class who is pretty, kind and hard-working.
The other day, I've told her my love.And she looked surprised and accepted it.
These days I called her but no reply, sent messages to her but no reply ,either. Now we are facing a very crucial exam which decides our future. I donnot want to get in the way of our studies, she might think so ,too. But I cannot help thinking of her all day! I am so shy that I can hardly talk with her in school. What should I do? Will it get in the way of our studies?? Help me please!!! I nearly get mad!!

worrying zc

Hello everyone!I'm Zhang Chi from China.I am 16 and I am a middle school student.And I love science. I want to be a scientist in the future!

Dogbytes™
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My emotion problems

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I've fallen in love with a girl in my class who is pretty, kind and hard-working.
The other day, I've told her my love.And she looked surprised and accepted it.
These days I called her but no reply, sent messages to her but no reply ,either. Now we are facing a very crucial exam which decides our future. I donnot want to get in the way of our studies, she might think so ,too. But I cannot help thinking of her all day! I am so shy that I can hardly talk with her in school. What should I do? Will it get in the way of our studies?? Help me please!!! I nearly get mad!!

worrying zc


You need to overcome your shyness and not worry about rejection. You need to talk to her. Explain to her that you realize the exams are important, and if studying together would be too distracting, ask her if you could see her when the exams are over...when you both can enjoy each others company.

Daniel Michel
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RE: I've fallen in love

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I've fallen in love with a girl in my class who is pretty, kind and hard-working.
The other day, I've told her my love.And she looked surprised and accepted it.
These days I called her but no reply, sent messages to her but no reply ,either. Now we are facing a very crucial exam which decides our future. I donnot want to get in the way of our studies, she might think so ,too. But I cannot help thinking of her all day! I am so shy that I can hardly talk with her in school. What should I do? Will it get in the way of our studies?? Help me please!!! I nearly get mad!!

worrying zc


Sometimes girls are difficult to understand...Be patient with her and don't put pressure on her to respond...When you have the opportunity...act as a friend and just talk to her...get to know her that way first...That way you will get to know how she feels about you...without all the pressure..

Dogbytes™
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That was good advice as

That was good advice as well...put both his and mine together.

Zhang Chi
Zhang Chi
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My heartfelt thanks to you

My heartfelt thanks to you both.
I've just come back from school. She looked at me!!! But I was not brave enough to talk to her. Maybe I will nerve myself to have a talk with her tomorrow.
And we are both under much pressure of studies.Our High School Entrance Exam will be hold on 28th June.After that, we will be free! If we fail in it, it means nothing.
Thanks again!

Hello everyone!I'm Zhang Chi from China.I am 16 and I am a middle school student.And I love science. I want to be a scientist in the future!

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